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懂得低头,才能出头

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 楼主| 发表于 2015-7-22 14:10:58 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
  人性是固执的,做到低头也是困难的,如果不懂得在现实面前适时的低头,人生也就不会有太大的成就,懂得适时的低头,是一种巧妙的智慧,沉稳的成熟。——题记
  谷子成熟了,就低下了头,向日癸成熟了,也低下了头,昂头是为了吸收正面的能量,低头是为了避让危险的冲撞,事实如此,正应了一句俗语:“低头的是稻穗,昂头的是秕子”。
  植物如此,倘若不低头,就不会成熟,风会将之吹折,雨会将之腐朽,鸟儿也会将果实作为食物而果腹充饥,只有空空如也的秕子,才会昂着头招摇在风中。
  人生也如此,至刚易折,至柔则无损,上善若水,是最好的选择,便利万物,而又能高能低,能屈能伸,方能顺利长远。
  所谓低头,是适时的选择,识时务者为俊杰;所谓成熟,也是辩证兼得,不能一味的追求一成不变的态度。
  生活中,如果一味的昂着头生活,那就会给人一种趾高气扬、不可一世的感觉,让人敬而远之,久而久之,人们就会觉得这是一种傲慢无礼、目中无人的傲气,会不被认可,或遭人排挤。
  现实里,如果一味的低着头,那就会给人一种懦弱,无能,胆小怕事的感觉,别人也会趁机欺负打压,久而久之,会让人们看不起,而作为另类处理。
  而适时的低头,不只是一个动作,也是一种智慧,是一种豁达的胸怀,是忍的境界;适时的低头,不是委曲求全的懦弱,是“留得青山在不怕没柴烧”的深谋远虑。
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