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你才20多岁,为什么总怕来不及

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 楼主| 发表于 2015-7-22 14:33:07 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
  前一段时间,有个94年的学妹给我打电话。她说,她很迷茫,很害怕。她说没想到一转身就大三了,很快就要大四了,感觉好像随时要毕业的样子。可是她回头去看过去的三年时光,她都不知道自己究竟干了些什么,读书没有好好读,恋爱也没有正经谈过,社团也只是随便打打酱油。她说感觉自己好失败,好像什么事情都做不好。不知道一个这样的自己,要如何面对明年的毕业?
  她还说,但这样一个平庸的自己,身边却不乏厉害的人。她认识大一开始就利用寒暑假的时间四处旅行拍照的学姐,如今已经开始给旅行杂志供稿;她认识大二的时候就交换去美国常春藤名校的学长,现在已经在那边读研继续深造;她还认识大三时就已经有了自己设计工作室的同届的朋友,接了几个不大不小的单子后,工作室目前已经小有名气。可是,反观自己呢?自己好像一无所长,走在人群中随时会被淹没。
  她说,明年就要毕业了,可是自己并不知道毕业以后要做什么。现在学的专业,并不是她喜欢的,当年高考以后,就是随便填了个学校填了个专业。不曾想过,那个时候的选择竟然就直接绑定了以后的人生。她好羡慕那些目标很明确的人,要么就是从事本专业的工作,要么就干脆跨行做一点别的,可是她连个确定的答案都没有。她说我该怎么办啊?好像做什么事情都来不及。
  她说,好像过了20岁以后,时间一直在快进,有太多的东西想要尝试,有太多的事情想做,有太多的地方想去,可是好像根本来不及啊。她觉得好害怕,她怕自己就这样匆匆过了一生,到最后,却什么梦想都没有实现。
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